Change happens from the inside, out.
Virtual therapy for Colorado & New York.
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Putting others’ needs before your own and focusing on meeting expectations is so second nature it can seem scary to consider what it might be like to relax or prioritize your own experience. Learn how self-compassion actually enables you to show up as your best self, but in a more balanced way that supports your well-being.
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It’s an exciting time that can also bring up mixed feelings about this new season of life and worries about managing your new role. It’s okay to feel unsure, and to seek the support you need.
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The loss of a pregnancy is the loss of the future you had imagined. You deserve the time and space to grieve in your own way and on your own timeline.
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Oftentimes, the way we parent reflects the way we were parented, both in good ways and ways that feel like we’re operating on “autopilot.” Increasing our awareness of how the past shapes our approach to the present can support our ability to be more intentional in the way we show up with our children.
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Midlife is a time of great responsibility—to your employer, your children, your parents—as well as a time when it’s easy to lose sight of who you are or what you want. Pausing to reconnect and rediscover parts of yourself can help you shift from living on autopilot to living with joy and purpose.
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Considering a new career, ending a relationship, moving to a new city? Big changes—even positive ones—tend to bring up big feelings that can be challenging to navigate. Pausing to explore and process your feelings can support your ability to be intentional and feel grounded in the midst of change.
No matter how hard you try, you worry you’ll fall short.
You’ve been so focused on meeting other people’s needs that you’ve overlooked your own. When you do check in with yourself, it’s hard to know how you feel or what you want, or you encounter challenging thoughts and feelings you don’t know how to manage.
I’m Pamela Hamer, Psy.D.
I can help.
I empower people who care deeply about doing their best to find a healthier balance between meeting their own needs and the needs of others. I’ll help you learn how changing your relationship to your thoughts and feelings can have a positive impact on every area of your life.
I listen with compassion, and will gently challenge you when needed to move you forward. I show up as a “real” person, with humor and kindness, and welcome you to do the same.